So you want to see more success in life right – love, relationships, business, financial – whatever your little heart desires.

Well, listen and listen closely – TO BAD!!!!! NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!

WOW – that was harsh right – someone just told you that you’re not gonna succeed in life and was in your face and blunt about it! It sucks when this happens!

See, what just happen above, is something most people have to deal with EVERYDAY in their lives. People telling them that they’r gonna succeed and that they’re worthless and so on.

If YOU have someone like this in your life, someone that puts you down and tells you that you not worth anything or that you’re not gonna make it in life …. GET AWAY FROM THAT PERSON!

See, these people are not happy with THEIR lives, they are ‘down-see’ers’ as I like to call them.

They look at the world through the eyes of someone they hate (themselves) and try to push that same belief and thought process on the people around them.

YOU DON’T NEED THIS!

If you want to see success, you need to be around people that are success oriented – people that are driven and ready to do what it takes to keep going.

You need to be around people that will stand behind you, help you out and give a loving and caring hand when the time is right.

“You are who you hang out with” – in other words, you will be the same type of person as those you hang around and let into your life.

If you let nay-sayers in to your life you will be one of those people, if you let haters and bad people into your life, you will be one of those people.

BUT – if you let positive, loving and care people into your life, people that life, breath and glow with success – you to will be a success in life, love and relationships.

SO – STOP letting other people put you down, STOP letting people in your life that make you feel worthless and STOP letting others tell you how much of a success you will or will not be!

Be BOLD – Think out of the box and start being yourself!

Success can be a brutal game that needs to be played.

I know that sounds a little “rough” but it’s true in some cases. See, not everyone you deal with will be as honest and straight forward as you are.

So, you need to change things up with your actions and the way you do business if you want to see success – when the time is right that is.

• Some people are scandal-is and others are easy going.
• Some people think the world is out to get them, and others believe everyone has a nice side.
• Some people think they have to get every single penny from every single person they can, while others think there is more than enough money for everyone.

What you have to do is evaluate the people you’re doing business, take in every look, action they take and the eye movements they have and gestures they make.

Try and determine what type of person they are, so YOU know how to handle them so you don’t get screwed or end up getting the short end of the stick.

With that, here are 5 BRUTAL success traits you may consider taking on when the time is right…

1. Always Say Less than Necessary - When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinx-like. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.
2. Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky - You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
3. Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself – Isolation is Dangerous - The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere – everyone has to protect themselves. A fortress seems the safest. But isolation exposes you to more dangers than it protects you from – it cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and an easy target. Better to circulate among people find allies, mingle. You are shielded from your enemies by the crowd.
4. Re-Create Yourself - Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define if for you. Incorporate dramatic devices into your public gestures and actions – your power will be enhanced and your character will seem larger than life.
5. Enter Action with Boldness - If you are unsure of a course of action, do not attempt it. Your doubts and hesitations will infect your execution. Timidity is dangerous: Better to enter with boldness. Any mistakes you commit through audacity are easily corrected with more audacity. Everyone admires the bold; no one honors the timid.

Reality is, there are people out there that will try and take advantage of you. There are people out there that will miss-lead you in business and there are people out there that are using these same (and more) tactics – so YOU need to use them when the time is right as well.

But be careful – there are some nice, honest and real people out there as well and you don’t want to be the bad guy/girl. evaluate people, watch them and judge for yourself when it’s the right time to bust out the “brutal business” side of you

MONEY! Just about every single thing in our lives these days revolves around money in some way.

• Paying bills
• Paying rent or mortgage
• School supplies
• Catching up on bills
• Credit card payments (you know, those things you THOUGHT would be a life saver)
• Business expenses

It all just keeps adding up more and more.

And on top of that, there are also the things in life we all want for ourselves.

• Cars
• Houses
• Movies
• Boats
• Vacations

All based on money (with no money, you got dimp).

Well, let’s just take a few seconds and look back on life for a minute.

I bet if you look back you’ll see that just about every good time and bad time in your life – revolved around money in some way.

Think about it. Aside from when your kids were born and getting married or any of that stuff, money was a major factor in the good and bad times (and kids and weddings involve money to – but…).

Well, I think it’s high time we all sit back – take a deep breath and remind ourselves how lucky we really are – with or WITHOUT money being involved.

Ask yourself these few questions…

1. Do you have your health as a good thing in life?
2. Are you married or with someone special?
3. Do you have beautiful kids
4. Do you like what you do for a living
5. Do you spend time with your family
6. Does your family have a good, stable roof over their heads
7. Is there food on the table every night
8. Are your bills paid for the most part at the end of the month
9. Do you still have an income coming in

Well, if you said “yes” to 3 or more of the things above – you have a GREAT life and something hundreds of thousands of people all over the world would love to have.

Try to remember how lucky you are to have what you do have now, and how thousands don’t even have that.

Try and remember that there are people eating out of trash cans and kids who haven’t bathed in weeks because they have no where to take a bath.

Try and remember all of these things and how LUCKY you are to have what is in your life now, because no matter what you get in life, until you’re happy with YOU and what’s around you – you will never be happy at all – money or not!

Goal setting is something that every single program, course and website that discusses personal development covers.

If you think about it – a LOT of the courses out there are nothing more than fluffed up info products on goal setting in some way.

Well, while I was searching the web today I came across this very detailed blog post on ‘Goal Setting‘ and I wanted to share it with you here so you can get a straight forward view of how it can be done to see those goals achieved.

Here’s some of what the blog post writer has to say…

Knowing how to write a goal without knowing how to set it up and implement it, is a bit like knowing how to make the worlds greatest hamburger without access to any utensils, a kitchen or even a cow. It may sound great in theory, but long-term culinary satisfaction is doubtful.

(Read More At: http://www.adaringadventure.com/blog/wordpress/featured/the-ultimate-goal-setting-post/ )

I personally think goal setting is an essential part of personal growth and it’s something you need to master in sorts to see any forward motion.

Anyway, check out the post I linked to above, read about the goal setting system there and start achieving your goals!

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